Three Things: Thanksgiving 2019 Edition
Just in time for your tryptophan overdose, here’s what I’m giving thanks for.
My Support System
I am extremely lucky to have immediate and extended family who are willing to help me out when I need it the most.
I’m slowly realizing that asking for help is not a sign of weakness. Parenting, adulting, and life are not meant to be done alone. To echo the great Ali Wong, “I have suffered enough.” I have access to help. I am taking it.
And don’t you worry – when I’m in a better position, I will pay it forward.
The Silver Lining
Getting fired was not one of my 2019 goals.
I experienced all the common emotions after being fired. I felt like the ultimate failure. My imposter syndrome was in high gear. I read a ton of articles with platitudes like, “It’s not your fault. You’re not an idiot. You’ll find something better.”
My last day on the job was a Friday. The following Monday, I applied to a digital marketing course, dipped into my savings and paid for the class in full, and started my upskilling journey.
This past month, a few freelancing opportunities came my way. I’m proud to say that 75% of these projects were unsolicited.
I am FLOORED that people want ME to help them grow their business. I’m on people’s radar!
It confirmed what I knew all along:
- I am smart.
- I am worthy.
- I produce good work.
Take that, imposter syndrome.
Strong Female Leads
The following ladies, in no particular order, inspire me to love myself, exude confidence, and do better.
- Ali Wong: This woman speaks my truth. Her book, Dear Girls, is a must-read for every grown ass man.
- Taylor Swift: Tay Tay gets a lot of flack for what she does, but I totally get where she’s coming from. I support her.
- Megan Thee Stallion: She coined the (now iconic) phrase “hot girl summer”. She’s a rapper who’s pursuing a degree in health administration. And to top it all off, she’s a fellow Houston girl. YES to all of this.
- Lizzo: Not only does she have an amazing voice, but she can twerk while playing the flute. Thank you, Lizzo, for showing the world that marching band is lit AF!
- Tiffany Haddish: I read her autobiography, and holy shit this woman had a hard life. It’s amazing how funny and happy she is today, despite what she’s been through. She’s an inspiration to anyone who’s experienced abuse and neglect.
- Cardi B: While her behavior can make people raise their eyebrows, I love how she’s unapologetic about it. I need more of her confidence in my life.
- Celeste Barber: This woman makes fun of all the staged bullshit on Instagram and I am HERE FOR IT.